Are more men negatively labelled quickly now as what women wants varies so wildly?

I mean a man wants, food, and for a woman not to talk endlessly. That hasnt changed for 1000's of years. What i'm wondering if I can't understand the minds of fellow females, how are men supposed to be able to? Are men being attacked and labelled when there only crime is they're not mind readers. I think they are and what's the wider societal consequence of this gender confusion?