HELP WITH EMO HAIR PLEASE!!?

Hi im wanting to make my hair into an emo style at home im turning emo for a certain reason thanks to my dad -.- anyways is there anyway i could make my hair emo at home i have long brownish hair no bangs its just all the same no cuts anywhere on my myspace i have some pics so take a look here it is www.myspace.com/vanessaisaloop so i beg you to give me ideas anyone i know my hair may need to be cut but i rather not cut it so anything would help iv spent hours looking at pictures and trying it on my hair and it wont work i need to do it at home also how should i design my makeup dont call me names and dont trease me XP or call me a poser cus im not and everybody needs a little help off there feet when they are ust getting started so thx for you advice. check out my website http://youranswers.webs.com/ =]